She had to fight him off and leave the party to get away. I had a long conversation with him after that (I’m probably the one woman he still respects).
He recognizes that he tried to rape a girl and that that was wrong, but he doesn’t understand how to have healthy relationships with women without the red pill.
but so much of pick-up is based around mistaken ideas regarding gender roles and female sexuality that it’s difficult to sort the gold from the toxic, rape-y dross.
Of course, there are a lot of people who don’t feel this way.
As I’m fond of saying, dating success is 80% attitude and 20% skill, and a of that attitude involves both issues of masculinity and also understanding and empathizing with women.
One of the popular red pill themes is that men should be dominant over the women in their lives, and sex and sexual acts are the metric of dominance therefore worth as a man.I mention all of this because one of the things I’m always pushing against are the toxic philosophies that so often masquerade as dating advice.The Pick-Up community, for example, be of use to men wanting to do better at dating, in theory…In some ways red pill did make him more attractive.He started exercising, eating better, improving his style and hygiene, expanding his social circle, and actually asking girls out.