– When walking on the sidewalk, they always make sure they are on the outer lane closer to the cars – They will take off their coat for you in cold weather – They arrive ten minutes early to dates and don’t mind waiting few minutes (I think some expect girls to be late).– Anything heavy or difficult to do, they feel responsible to solve/do it for the girl.This can be a bit frustrating, but girls often expect the same from guys so it’s a mutual thing I suppose.It’s always really hard to have a girl’s night out if one of the girl is in a relationship. – Texting an opposite gender -Calling an opposite gender – Talking to an opposite gender – Looking at an opposite gender -Thinking about an opposite gender So basically anything that has to do with the opposite gender is a no.It’s partly because many of my Korean friends think there is no such thing as friendship between a girl and a guy.Meeting friends of a Korean boyfriend is one of the most stressful parts of the ordeal, imo.
They often dress like they’ve popped out of print ads in magazines.
So in my experience, they put you on a pedestal and subtlety judge you.
Once you break into the group, they will love and protect you forever, but it’s really hard to break into the bubble.
One thing that Korean guys seem to enjoy doing is refer to themselves as “Oppa.” For instance, instead of saying “I’ll buy you dinner/I’ll do that for you,” they will say “Oppa will buy you dinner/ Oppa will do that for you.” Seriously, when a guy that I’m not too interested does this, every bit of hair on my body stands up.
Good thing that comes with this phenomenon is that Korean guys in general are very responsible and almost trained to take care of girls in all ways possible.